Please Be Seated

Winter returned last night and sighed its snowy flakes over the yard. I’m tempted to grumble but can’t seem to muster the strength. It’s too beautiful. The birds this morning are unfazed, even excited as they flit from branch to feeder and then off  again. Watching them this morning I made an interesting discovery… their favorite gathering spot! Nestled together against the frigid winter gusts they faithfully line the top of the garden bench by the garden gate while chattering up a storm. No matter the time of day or the changing weather, the bench is the place to be!

How like the birds we are! No matter the size, location or design we like to revel in our gardens and it’s all the more merrier when our friends join us. Gardens are just more fun when others delight in them too! Great garden designs include a focal point that will “draw people to a destination” in the garden. In our yard I’ve found that a lawn chair paired with a tall glass of iced tea works quite well. Many times over, hubby and I have sat down at the end of a long gardening day, exhilarated, to be joined in short order by friends and neighbors gathering to celebrate our hard day’s work. Inevitably they’re drawn to the gardens where they wander among the rows and beds commenting, questioning and encouraging us in our efforts. As toads trill good night at the pond’s edge we’ll return to our seats and while away the sunset in friendly conversation.

Whether an ornate bench in a hidden spot or a rustic chair set next to the edge of the vegetable plot; when the garden beckons a place to sit is essential. Not only to delight in the blooms, fruits and fragrance that beg us to linger, but to witness life of the garden itself. Bees, birds, butterflies and bugs all busy about their daily duties… garden moments otherwise unnoticed without a place to pause and observe.  Take time to celebrate growing, add a spot to plop down and relax for while. You’ll see the garden isn’t just about what you’ve created, but what you’ve provided… and don’t be surprised when others join you!